You stopped choosing what pleased you

The one with the candles, or the soap, or the little bottles of lotion that no one actually needs.

You used to linger there. You used to pick something up, hold it to your nose, and breathe in for no reason other than it felt good.

At some point, scent became purely functional. The detergent that works, the soap that was on sale, the lotion that does not bother anyone else’s skin.

You stopped choosing what pleased you and started choosing what was invisible. Unobtrusive, inoffensive, fine for everyone.

This sounds like such a small thing. But it is not small at all.

Scent is one of the most private preferences a person can have. Nobody else needs to approve of what you love to smell.

And yet even this got filed under unnecessary. Even this quietly got handed over.

It is the same rule as the lunch eaten standing at the counter. The good version goes to everyone else, and you take whatever is left.

Today, I want you to smell something purely for pleasure.

That is the whole invitation. Two minutes, maybe less.

Some of the scents you used to choose were for night, the lotion on the nightstand, the candle lit before bed. If your nights have gotten harder too, especially the 3 a.m. kind, today’s sponsor has a short routine for it just below.

If you fall asleep just fine…

But your eyes snap open around 3 AM and your mind instantly starts racing…

Bills… Kids… Your health… Regrets…

Then you lie there staring at the ceiling, exhausted but wired, watching the clock crawl toward another zombie day…

That’s why the scale won’t budge no matter how hard you try!

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Sleep tight!

Walk into a store and find the candle aisle or the soap display or the perfume counter. Pick things up, hold them close, breathe in slowly.

Notice which ones make you pause. Notice which ones you put back immediately.

Or open your own spice cabinet. Smell the cinnamon, the cardamom, the jar you bought for a recipe you made once and never made again.

Or crush a leaf between your fingers if you pass something growing outside.

You are not shopping. You are not running an errand.

You are finding out what you like. That is a sentence that deserves to land, so I will say it again: you are finding out what you like.

You do not need to buy anything or do anything with the information. Just let it register.

Let your own preference exist in the room for a moment, without asking anyone else if it is too strong or too sweet or too much.

That is enough for today.

Helen Keller wrote that in The World I Live In. She understood, better than most, what it means to pay full attention to a sense that everyone else rushes past.

Tomorrow, we are going to talk about a way you used to move through a room.

See you tomorrow.

If someone came to mind while you were reading this, send her these letters. The Permission Slips are yours when she stays.